Dear Dad — A Father’s Day Video

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These adorable kids say everything you’d ever want to say to your own dad. Happy Father’s Day!

This is an adaptation from my original letter to Dads. You can find that here.

https://5minutesofyourlife.com/2013/06/14/dear-dad-a-fathers-day-letter/

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Calling All Parents: The M&M Challenge

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Contrary to popular belief, being a parent is not hard. You can wake up in the morning, and as long as you spend the rest of the day keeping yourself and your offspring alive, you can consider it a success. In fact, it’s so easy, thanks to playstation, xbox and netflix, you can often parent in cruise control, from the other side of the house, especially in the summer. If you time it right, you can get in a couple of naps, a trip to the store, or maybe the movies, and they’ll be none the wiser. The summer can go by so fast if you play it right. Let them sleep till noon, throw them in their room at 9pm, BAM! The day’s over.

Well, that’s one way to do it I guess. Continue reading

Confessions of A Married Man: 5 Tips for a Happy Valentine’s Day. (HINT) If she shared this, you should probably READ it!

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Hey guys, heads up, Valentine’s Day is this week, FYI.

I know it’s a trumped up Hallmark Holiday. I know you think it’s sole purpose even existing is to sell greeting cards, but that’s not completely true. On the other end of that greeting card is your special lady, who doesn’t care why she’s receiving love notes from you, she’s just happy she is. If you want to know if Valentine’s Day is a big deal to her, just skip it one year, see how that works out for ya.

To help you along, I’m including 5 easy tips on how to make sure Valentine’s Day starts well for her, and more importantly, ends well for you. Continue reading

Ignoring my Family, To Bring You the Perfect Christmas Video

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A few weeks ago, Apple rolled out a new commercial advertising their new iPhone. It was a very touching and heartwarming piece, featuring a young teen who seems to be distracted by his iPhone all day, but then it’s revealed he was capturing the whole day on his phone, and quickly editing a moving holiday family video.

Well, that made me want to do the same. So, in turn, I also ignored my family through three different holiday gatherings, but it’s ok, I got it all on video, and put together a 2 minute highlight of the festivities, just like the apple spot. Continue reading

Thanksgiving: A Holiday for the man, made by a woman.

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Thanksgiving. Hands down, my favorite holiday of the year.

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But this is only true, because I’m a man.

My wife would disagree. That is, she would disagree that Thanksgiving is the best, not that I’m a man…I think.

Truth is, Thanksgiving is a completely different holiday to the man than it is to the woman.

I offer you, 3 easy steps to make Thanksgiving better for her.

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“Daddy, have you ever smiled?” The question that changed my parenting.

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I’m a father to two boys, 13 and 9. It was the youngest that asked me the question which changed the way I thought of myself as a parent. He was about 5 years old at the time, and it hit me like a ton of bricks.

“Daddy, have you ever smiled?”

I was taken off guard at first by the question. What could he mean? Of course I smile. Anybody who knows me may wonder if I’ve ever been serious.

The more I thought about it though, the kid was right.  His perception of me as not only a father, but a person, painted a terrible reality.

Don’t misunderstand, on the surface, I’m a good dad. I don’t beat my children; I hug them, kiss them, and tell them I love them. All the things we think are the important parts of being a good parent. Obviously, it wasn’t enough.

I had to take a look at myself from my kid’s perspective. I saw 5 negatives I knew I had to change to positives.

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